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“David Stocum is an invaluable support system. He brings compassion, insight, and honesty to the coaching process. He has never failed to combine unconditional support with straight talk, and our sessions together have kept me focused and in action. He is an excellent coach." -- N. L. Los Angeles




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Single, but don't want to be?


I am gay or think I may be and want to stop feeling isolated and being afraid someone will find out. I’m tired of living a lie in the closet.


Why can't I find a job? I've been searching for months and am getting nowhere.


I am an openly gay man who wants to find my Soulmate without bars, chat rooms, personal ads or kissing too many frogs.


I own or market a small service business and want to grow my business.


I am a sales professional, consultant or freelancer and want to have more clients.


I want to make a difference in the world without giving up my personal life in the process.




My name is David Stocum and I welcome you to Great Lives Coaching.  As a gay man and small business owner myself, I understand the struggles, challenges and joys of being gay and growing a business in the 21st century. Whatever you are going through chances are I’ve been there too. Whether you’re trying to decide if it’s time to end the isolation of the closet, tired of looking for your soulmate in all the wrong places or are an activist looking to have a life while changing lives; I’ve been there. If it’s trying to figure out where the next client is coming from, I’ve been there too. Great Lives are built on great relationships. I work with gay men and others to create empowered relationships in career, business, family, love and the world.   My joy comes from assisting others in creating lives that support who they truly are.  You can create a joyful life.


I invite you to explore the site. You will find information about solutions to many common gay situations, information on coaching and free assessments to get you started. Let’s get to know each other. Once you’ve looked around drop me a line and let me know what you think. You can email me at david@GreatLivesCoaching.com.


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